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The phrase '¿cómo se te ocurre?' is a set expression meaning 'what were you thinking?' or 'how could you do/say that?'. It expresses surprise, reproach, or disbelief at someone's behaviour.

The standard formal expression of condolence used at funerals or when someone has died. More ceremonial than 'lo siento mucho'. Almost always used in face-to-face situations with bereaved people.

A very common idiomatic phrase referring to using personal contacts and influence to get something done, especially in bureaucratic or legal contexts.

Used when someone is urged or expected to accept a difficult reality. Implies an emotional or psychological process of adjustment.

From the verb 'calar', meaning to soak through. Figuratively, 'tener calado a alguien' means to have someone all figured out, to see through their act or character.

A fixed expression warning that someone might be listening. Used to urge caution about speaking sensitive information in a given place.